
How I built a steady marriage out of infidelity
While my wife kept repeating that it was the work of the devil, the man kept saying, "I didn't know she was married." I knew the man was lying to get away from blames because the walls of our house were decorated with photos of us, some in our wedding clothes. I told the pastor, "We are family and we've learned to solve our problems no matter how big it is. We'll overcome." Because Naana forgave me easily without making a fight, I learned also to forgive my wife without ever mentioning it or bringing it up whenever we had a fight. "Because of that single act of forgiveness I showed towards her, my wife worships me like a god. It's the year 2021 and we've done twenty-four years of marriage already. Our marriage is always new as though we got married only yesterday. People see us and say they want our kind of marriage. I say in my head,"You can have it if only you can go through our troubles.